Trashley ruined my game

I'm a storyteller simmer so I structure my games, my mods, and every setting to how I want it. This includes turning off neighborhood stories, auto aging sims, lifestyle, opting out of fame, etc. etc. I made the big mistake of saying yes to the trash rodent and it reset all my settings. I'm so upset y'all do not understand. I go through every household in my game to structure them how I want them to so I can go one by one making them do the things I want them to do and setting up their lore. FFS why do half my households have a random cat, dog, baby, etc, aging sims, and households moving into empty houses??????? This is why Inzoi got created cuz I did not just spend $43 on a glitchy pack. I specifically set aside this evening to play sims nonstop cuz I haven't been able to play for a couple weeks and all my progress (2 marriages, twins going thru university, skill leveling, and a dramatic divorce telenovelas and bollywood got nothing on) this past 4 hrs is absolutely ruined