Want to turn off Romantic satisfaction

Romantic satisfaction decay is the bane of my existence. I play multiple households, in my main family the parents have always been super into each other (way before the pack) without me needing to interact with them, I mean they literally have seven kids and I only planned for one. Lovestruck makes it so when I spend a weekend with their oldest out of the house children they end up on the brink of divorce because the game doesn't have them interacting autonomously when I'm not on the lot and suddenly they're upset with each other. One of my other Sims couples almost broke up because the guy spent two days trying to get a promotion and she got mad he was ignoring her. They need to let us pause it or dial down the decay rate.