I take it that you have some mod installed that cause your Sims to not do what you have told them to do and instead start flirting with their spouse. You need to figure out which one and remove it.
They act automatically, when you hit the other sims you more or less can see the options they have, I can't send orders to al of them (the household) l, they take time to obey and do the first thing the game chose. I don't have many mods, and the one I have mc I selected NO flirt autonomously I think it's the game. I repeat I want to know how can I stop that..
I don't see them as very flirty maybe because of my play style. I tend to have tasks queed up for my sims most of the time so not much time for them to do anything autonomously.
