@daikoyu thank you, I dropped 3 households from another load in to New Crest last night. All 3 husband and wife households. They kept the skills and job rank etc but wanted to send them on one date each to re raise the friendship and romance bars
.. then the Welcome Wagon came and bam someone complimented another's appearance and enemies were formed and 2 that weren't the active household got the furious from cheating sentient.
This was a Myshuno load but decided to bring some fave families in from another load and with Naps off its happening in New crest as well. Though to be fair one couple had already gone on a date but they weren't the ones who did the flirting though they were flirty. It's "compliment appearance" causing this most often because I recognize the thought bubble. It didn't create a pink bar with the other but I had damage control to do after.
I may have to add these mods, thank you for the suggestion, because an occasional incident I could understand and if my naps were on I could see that happening but it's happening constantly even when sims aren't flirty. The culprit is most often the compliment appearance sending my sims into a "punch blarfy rage"
The sims who suddenly have romantic interests I'm not sure what's causing that because I'm not around when they develop.
None of my sims have high enough charisma in this load to do the enchanting intro... which I hate 😆 that thing creates relationships all over del sol in another load
I'll check these mods, thank you 😊