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PugLove888's avatar
PugLove888
Hero (Retired)
6 years ago

Re: What does it mean when my sim cannot marry because of employ

@Yekuhsiyo, It is my understanding that Sims can't marry their employees.  It the Sim your Sim is trying to marry an employee of theirs?🤔

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  • Cdm5476's avatar
    Cdm5476
    6 years ago

    No, she’s not my employee. I sold my business, quit my job, made her quit her job and it’s still not allowing me to get married 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • PugLove888's avatar
    PugLove888
    Hero (Retired)
    6 years ago

    @Cdm5476, this could be due to the fact that their relationship isn't high enough yet to get married, but sometimes the employee tag pops up with this for some reason.  This has happened to a friend of mine a couple of times, but the problem was their relationship or romantic relationship wasn't quite high enough, despite what the tag said. 🤭 😃

    However, some Mods, especially relationship Mods could affect this as well.  Do you happen to use Mods?🤔

    Edit: I forgot to mention that sometimes this message will pop up if you have a romance bar existing with any other Sim other than the one your Sim is trying to marry.  To fix this, find the Sim or Sims who you have had romances with and ask to just be friends.  That should get rid of the romance bar and you should now be able to marry the Sim you intended! 🙌

  • @Cdm5476 I've seen this when one of the sims have multiple girlfriend/boyfriends. You will need to use the "Break Up" or "Ask to just be friends" options on the other sims that they are in a relationship with before you can marry the 2 sims.
  • suzushka's avatar
    suzushka
    6 years ago

    @Cdm5476 This is a known issue for sims who have completed the Serial Romance aspiration. If this applies to your sim, the accepted solution is basically what @PugLove888 wrote in the ‘Edit’ portion of comment #4.