the romantic options or interactions do not appear

since the last update I'm having an issue during my game, the romantic options doesn't appear, even if my sims have the same age and similar preferences, the interaction are not there. I've tried everything, repair the game, delete the cache, remove my mods folder and it stills not fixed. please if someone can help me, i have all the dlc and i don't know what is happening.

(and also tell me if you don't understand something because English is not my native language and i make mistakes sometimes)