“Exchange Numbers” – A Fix to Excessive Calls/Texts

I'd love something like this. Ideally a sim shouldn't even appear in our relationship panel just because we talked to them for an hour or so. I'd love for my sims to be able to chat with the bartender of a venue without that bumping the relationship with this person up to the same tier of my sim's longtime friends. In an unmodded game it takes ages before relationship decay has gotten rid of the new "friend".