In
Wonderful W. there's a freeze setting called
'Attractiveness Dynamic World View Switch' Here's the quote:
"So what happens when the World View is Frozen? Your current world view gets frozen and persists to the end of time, preventing Sims attractiveness opinion of others to change because of the continuously growing world population. " So if it's your only irritation you can tick it and attraction won't change. I do not know nothing about it's adult counterpart.
Unfortunately I can't use even Wonderful version 'cause it's merged with fertility/woohoo which I want completely vanilla in my game. And though there are settings for these modules to go Vanilla they can't be removed completely from the mod. So it's clutter my game with unnecessary irritating menus, rabbit holes and custom objects I do not want.
I was searching for other mods as an alternative, but found no one to satisfy me. Thepancake has
Love&Hate Mod. This one is mostly about skilling and autonomy preferences with basic chemistry system. Quote:
"Right now, how it works is, for example, if Sim A Hates TV and Sim B Loves TV, the chance of a romance interaction succeeding will be slightly lower. Or if Sim A Hates TV and Sim B Hates TV, the chance of a romance interaction succeeding will be slightly higher." This mod I really like in general, but it's very limited and in many cases I can't find the option to describe my sims likes/dislikes for example "camping" or "pet training"
I'm not aware about any other alternatives. So I'll be watching closely for this thread.