Eco Lifestyle: Best/Worst NAPs?

my sim steals his own stuff usually chairs and sofas and he hasn't got the steal trait and he isnt mean either. they dont show up in the family inventory and I have to either make new in the fabricator or buy again. makes me so annoyed. But I love the echo pack, best yet I think, has anyone tried it in other neaighborhoods?? Another thing i don't like about it is too much empty space and not enough houses or flats or both to live in, not even a community childrens park, with all that space it would be nice to have one. i do love the fabrictor and the chance to make money doing plans etc, and changing spaces. i like that we can vote what happens to community space and enviroment.