Has your adult sim been texted from an unplayable adult sim and asked to be boy/girlfriend?

I don't mind the best friend requests, as I use a mod that allows more than one best friend at a time, would hate it if I didn't, as you get great relationship drops if you say no. I have had Sims my Sim never even met ask to be best friends, and have had romantic relationships start with other Sims I haven't interacted romantically with, and both of my Sims are in committed relationships, so this bugs me to no end.