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GrumpyGlowfish
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4 years ago

How do I get rejected (romantically)?

I need a clip, just one clip of my sim trying to flirt with another sim and getting rejected. Doesn't even matter which interaction, as long as it involves a bit of physical contact. But no matter how bad I cheat their relationship, no matter if the target sim is tired or sad or tense, she always reciprocates.

So yeah, stupid question that nobody would have needed to ask pre-TS4, but... how do I get rejected?? :heartbreak:

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  • I don't have much of an issue with that, it's always been the same come on too strong, or mix mean interactions with flirty ones right after the other pause and queue it up if you need to. Asking a risque question always fails for me before the pink bar or when it's practically empty.
  • I think Zulf did a mod for no rejection mod or maybe it was one of Zero's mods.

    Zulf's mods
    https://www.patreon.com/cepzid/posts

    Zero's mods
    https://www.patreon.com/zer0_Mods_

    Which traits are you using? Any objections to using custom traits. Some traits including custom traits work better than others. I would use the romantic trait and custom trait Pretty to help. The other custom traits like Aphrodite haven't been updated and might not be. I used to use the Aphrodite trait because it had a broadcaster to make other sims around them flirty which aided in romantic interactions. The custom traits: pretty girl and pretty do the same thing but to a lesser degree.

    Chingyu custom traits
    https://www.patreon.com/chingyu1023
  • My sims almost always get rejected with the confess attraction interaction
  • Not sure if Feng is her real last name because she's married, but look for Lily Feng. She has the unflirty trait.

    Otherwise, just try Romance social actions right off the bat with a sim that has 0 friendship/relationship.
  • "bshag4lv;c-17860366" wrote:
    When it is available, try flirting with a celebrity who is full of himself t.u.r.d. I know this works as my sim who had a half full romance bar tried to first kiss her celebrity squeeze and he put his hand in her face to stop her! I could have I would have reached through this monitor and snapped his little head off. :D But back on subject, sorry, I would try a celebrity to flirt with, and so forth.

    This is the one idea suggested in this thread that I haven't already tried, but I realised after reading it that the flirting sim himself is famous... Could this be the reason? Are ordinary mortals just so infatuated with celebrities that they can't even grasp the concept of rejecting one?


    "drakharis;c-17860460" wrote:
    I think Zulf did a mod for no rejection mod or maybe it was one of Zero's mods.

    Zulf's mods
    https://www.patreon.com/cepzid/posts

    Zero's mods
    https://www.patreon.com/zer0_Mods_

    Which traits are you using? Any objections to using custom traits. Some traits including custom traits work better than others. I would use the romantic trait and custom trait Pretty to help. The other custom traits like Aphrodite haven't been updated and might not be. I used to use the Aphrodite trait because it had a broadcaster to make other sims around them flirty which aided in romantic interactions. The custom traits: pretty girl and pretty do the same thing but to a lesser degree.

    Chingyu custom traits
    https://www.patreon.com/chingyu1023

    Thanks, but I was actually looking for the opposite, I wanted my sim to get rejected. Perhaps there's a mod for that, too?


    As for the Unflirty trait that has been brought up: That was one of the first things I tried, but it didn't quite work as intended. All it did was give the target sim a tense moodlet afterwards, but she did still reciprocate the romantic interaction while it was happening. I also tried playing around with the friendship and attraction bars, making both sims miserable emotion-wise, giving them opposite personality traits, removing any traits and skills (such as Charisma) that could have a positive effect on flirting, cheating a negative romance-related sentiment... Nothing worked.

    The one thing that did work in the end (after one and a half hours of desperation) was making both sims embarrassed before trying to flirt. Then, and only then did the target sim finally refuse to have her hands kissed. I tried the mistletoe kiss right afterwards, just out of curiosity, and suddenly she was receptive again (despite still being embarrassed), but I only needed one clip and I got it. Still, what a strange game. If only romance was that easy in real life...
  • Get an unflirty sim, even if she is a duplicate for one scene. Eat microwaved food, this will give you a poor mood all together.

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