The baby is pure alien even if the father is human when it's an abduction child. First the father will have a weird tummy ache and think it's something he ate, but he'll have a lot of animations of his tummy sparkling and him saying"whoa, nuboo?" so even then he suspects it's a baby. phase two is weight gain, and he hopes it's just a phase. Phase 3, he's very suspicious and, pretty well knows he's pregnant. Then he's terribly miserable in labor. Not a happy sim at all but, it's all worth it for the alien bundle of joy he gets.
Now if he's not at a point in life where he is ready for a child, he can send the infant to the homeworld and, that's that, it's as if the birth never happened, the child is gone forever.