It's your game, you are supposed to have fun, I think it's OK to bend the rules and even make your own. If you must finish the challenge, I have found out that you can leave the kid on the lot and go about your life like you never had them. The game will automatically call a baby sitter for you. So, my advice is have the babies, buy a retail lot and move out on the pretence that you need to work to provide for your ever growing family. You can have a business and live on the retail lot and visit home lot only when absolutely necessary. For bonding purposes you could bring one kid to work each day. ?
