Let's Find Those Trait Improvements

My neat sim is driving me insane - once again they overpower something that needed a gentle touch (looking at you bust the dust pack). I can't get her to do ANY task, She cancels everything in favour of cleaning things that aren't dirty. She is always starving and on the verge of peeing herself and extremely tired because she can't stop cleaning. This is a mental health disorder not a clean trait. And when something is dirty eg. her hamster cage - she ignores it iin favour of scrubbing the already clean kitchen cabinets. To me a neat sim would put their plates in the sink or dishwasher (and other family members plates), clean up trash piles and clean dirty cabinets autonomously_...........it is not suffering cleaning based OCD and having the rest of your life suffer.