New Pronoun Options Please

"Cinebar;c-17016955" wrote:
I'm a bit confused. I thought if I transgenered to a male then I would prefer being called he instead of she. I thought that was the whole point. And vice versa. If male to female I would prefer she instead of he. It's not clear to me why I would want to be called they. I'm not plural. Then there are Sims I would want to be called he or she because that is who I built so I hope that wouldn't be removed and how would we choose what pronoun the game would use? In the CAS filters? another slot to pick the pronoun?

This is a really good question, let me explain why they/them is a good option.

They/them is used for people who don't feel male or female. The term for people like that is non-binary. There are a bunch of identities in non-binary, such as gender neutral where they feel as though they're a third gender with a bit of male and female influences but still unique. Bi-gender, where they feel very strongly that they're BOTH male and female. Agender, people feel they aren't on the gender spectrum at all and are without a specific gender. Gender fluid, like me, where sometimes you feel like a boy sometimes, and other time likes a girl, and sometimes in-between.

So he/him and she/her don't apply to those people and a lot of them use they/them. Like me, I'm gender fluid so I experience multiple gender identities but for the last four months I've been in the middle so I like they/them the most right now.

And it's okay that they/them doesn't feel quite right for you or doesn't make a lot of sense. Even for me I didn't like they/them when I first started accepting I was gender fluid, it took me a while to accept that even though it was usually used as a plural, that it was okay to use for a singular person who didn't identify as male or female. Hopefully this makes more sense :)