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"comicsforlife;c-17614264" wrote:"Onverser;c-17614198" wrote:"comicsforlife;c-17614143" wrote:"Onverser;c-17614133" wrote:
Some of these comments seem to be borderline nasty/harrassing the OP. I think we all know who I'm talking about. I would suggest to just report these people for trying to create drama, clearly they're having a bad day and feel the need to take it out on others.
If people don't share OPs opinion they can just comment once with their opinion, and do it respectfully. There's absolutely no need to keep coming back to this thread and attacking. No need to invalidate other peoples opinions, I'm sure OP doesn't go around attacking you every time you have an issue with the game.
A lot of these comments are all too familiar to me having been under the same attacks in the past. It's baiting and mob mentality plain and simple, these kinds of people love to make really patronising comments and demean others opinions to try and get a raise out of them. It's the typical tactics, attack someone for their opinion, accuse them of being whiney and attention seeking and then when they ask you to be more respectful attack them for trying to "control what you can and can't say". Then they come on with the "Nobody is being mean we're just respectfully disagreeing!" (which is total bull.) Just block them and leave the moderators to clean them out
nobody can invalidate ops opinions by disagreeing with them I haven't seen anyone say op was whiney
maybe I missed it somewhere
Doesn't have to be direct it can be implied. There are many, many comments saying OP should stop complaining and making a fuss about nothing and saying they should make their own rather than whining.
From a psychologist invalidating someone's opinion is; "the process of denying, rejecting or dismissing someone’s feelings. Invalidation sends the message that a person’s subjective emotional experience is inaccurate, insignificant, and/or unacceptable." A lot of people in this thread are rejecting OPs issues with the situation and implying their opinion is insignificant and ridiculous
then aren't you invalidating peoples opinion by saying there's does not matter and they should not disagree
with op because it invalidates her opinion ? I'm sorry but with that train of thought everyone's opinion is
invalid because people will never agree all the time I would rather think that everyone's opinions
are valid whether you agree with them are not sorry if I make you feel invalidated
I made it pretty clear that my issue is with people repeatedly attacking OP, not with people respectfully disagreeing. If you read my comments properly you'd know that. :)
"Onverser" wrote:
If people don't share OPs opinion they can just comment once with their opinion, and do it respectfully. There's absolutely no need to keep coming back to this thread and attacking. No need to invalidate other peoples opinions, I'm sure OP doesn't go around attacking you every time you have an issue with the game.
Respectfully disagreeing is fine, invalidating someones opinion, derailing their thread, creating drama and calling them whiney is not.
