Relationships and consequences

I literally googled like can a married sim date or something of that nature and this discussion is exactly what I needed. I've been having my girl not only date several people while married but have intercourse as well and even bring them to the house..nothing ever happened besides the husband only noticing once and idk how, I just got a moodlet that said embarrassed for getting caught cheating or something and that's it he was fine. I even had her send flirty texts to several people right infront of him, again nothing. So then I invited my gf over and not intentionally had her witness their fight which I think upset her and saw points lost or w.e so she left the room.

I had to intentionally make him argue with her yell at her call her momma a llama lmao and every action available then she was steaming like enraged so I had her push him and shove him and then somehow they end up still being flirty or confident after they were done fighting because of the stupid house traits or their stupid personal traits and cuz it was valentines day I decided to do this ...so then I did a cheat code and made them happy and had them fight except not to that extent and just had the husband yell (pretending he caught her sending flirty texts) then did the apologize by woohoo action (which that was awesome).

I just cant believe he doesn't know all she's done however since I have get famous him yelling at her and a sim witnessing it started to affect his reputation so maybe just maybe things will be a little better with this reputation system or maybe not.