Self Woohoo/Personal Care/More adult options

Hi folks, at this point, I am stepping in here and closing the thread as we're veering into some territory not appropriate for the forums. There's also been some back and forth between users that isn't okay - calling out how people are posting as if that's ground for discrediting them. We're not here to talk about when/what is natural at what stage in folks' lives to start doing certain things and we all need to be respectful towards one and other.