I've used them all at least once, but I tend to use Active minimally because I agree, it's annoying.
I avoid Geek now because my Sims already spend way too much time on phones and computers, which is a shame, because I like the concept of it.
Clumsy is a trait that I really want to use, but I can't stand that it doesn't actually have any negative consequences, only "laugh at themselves". What good is it?
I've kind of stopped using Vegetarian because Sims will automatically eat meals with meat instead of going hungry and then distress about it, which is just bad autonomy.
I tend to not use Bro much because I generally don't do much with sports in the game at all, but I've started giving it to some Sims to mix things up a bit.
The Cheerful and Good traits I avoid a lot, especially Cheerful. I can't stand the traits that give happy buffs because the game already has too many by default. But since I use the Evil trait a lot, I might be able to start using Good again so they can be miserable around my Evil Sims, lol.
Insider is kind of useless to me as well.
We really need some better traits, lol.