I wound up installing a mod that rerolls the wants because my married sim kept wanting to flirt with other people. What I don't like about this system is that even if my sim overcomes the fear of deadend job, it keeps coming back. How many times should my sims have to conquer this same fear. Plus, ALL of my sims get this same fear. So, to me it is not much different than whims and the bee box constantly appearing, except at least I could cancel the whim if I wanted to. I think only sims who are ambitious or overachievers should worry about a deadend job, not EVERY SINGLE sim. It is beyond annoying. I am debating switching the whole thing off.