Way too much phone action now during chatting

It really should be tied to likes and dislikes. (I would say traits, but we have too few of those as it is to waste on something like this.) Alternatively, it could be tied to the individual sim's phone. But either way, it really needs to be easily customizable.

I was so looking forward to the new sexual orientation options that came with this patch, and now I haven't even been able to bring myself to open the game all week, because everything else that seems to have come with the patch is such a nightmare.