I love this pack, but I don't love the fated mate system and there seems to be no way around it unless you never flirt (autonomously or not) with another werewolf. I have a serial romantic weresim...
There IS a loot for REMOVING the fated mate trait, but I can't figure out where it's applied. There are also string references to defying fate in the marriage interactions at the arch and eloping, so I wonder if you need to marry the not fated mate to get the fated mate trait/relbit to go away?