What is the deal with Eliza Pancakes?!?

You are all fortunate with those anecdotes. In my games Eliza is almost invisible. In my main game she hardly ever shows up in public and the daughter I created for the Pancakes follows her parents' example. In the other save they have naturally born twins. One of my sims once met the female twin in a nightclub. Now in my main save this would be considered normal (nightlife is very safe there), but in this universe I thought it prudent to bring the kid home ("travel with") asap. The Pancakes weren't even home (probably searching the town for their kid), but when they arrived Eliza gave Eleanore a big hug. And this is pretty much the only info I have about Eliza: that she cares about her children.