Who is the Townie that you use to take out your frustration on?

I have it out for Oliana. She kept rifling through, then micking over my trash can. And it's glitched, so that I can't pick up the trash can and have to buy a new one. She also slapped her wife a few times in my games, due to her Jealous trait.

I like to have my wizard sims test out new spells on her. Other times I try to sabotage her relationship with her wife, so she can escape their home.