Why is it rude to cook at somebodys house?
I just got kicked out of my friends house for cooking, although we're both hungry. I know if I was spending the night itd be fine, but throughout the series it is a kick-out offense. Why?
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"CelSims;c-17414481" wrote:"DivieOwl;c-17413835" wrote:"Netzspannung;
While I agree pertaining to strangers and even friends, my own family are perfectly ok with a child coming home from Uni wanting to have a shower, food and a bed for a night or seven. I wouldn't dream of yelling at my brother for using my microwave or bathtub.....
I don't really agree with that. I think it's very rude, even for family to help themselves without asking (with the only exception being my children that are grown and moved out) but even then, they are polite enough to ask permission first. Both my grown children know anything in my house is welcome to them, but I also raised them to be polite and they ask before helping themselves.
On the same note, I would never just go help myself to anyone's items without asking first. Not even my mothers. When I go to my mother's house, and I get thirst, I ask, "Do you have something to drink?" I would never just go get in her fridge without permission.
Again, I think a "ask permission for..." would be great (as mentioned by another simmer) but having the always welcome works fine for me, I just do a few socials and "pretend" I asked permission. (We sure do have to pretend a lot for a life simulator).
Yep, real life my brother or children would ask, but we can't ask in the sims. Ideally the option to ask would be there. But it isn't so I would expect in the sims world it to just be ok to go ahead in your parents or siblings house.
See, again, I'm opposite. Since the option to ask isn't there, I'd expect it to just not be okay and if I want it to be okay, I can purchase the reward trait. That way, everyone is happy. The people like me - that want the feature included - and people like you - that want to be able to walk in someone's house and start cooking. Easy-peasy... purchase the cheapo 500 point reward and we're both happy.
