So far my sims are still being referred to as he/him and she/her. If EA do go down the gender-neutral pronoun route though, that's fine by me. Gender-neutral pronoun usage in Sims games has never affected my ability to be referred to as she/her in real life, and no-one is trying to take that from me. After all, they/them is inclusive of all genders. If it turns out that the gender-neutral pronoun change does happen across the board, and you happen to take issue with it, there are some options for you: You can always wait for someone to make a mod to add he/him and she/her back into the game (if not, you might be able to request someone somewhere to make a mod). Also, I believe TS3 has every Sim go by he/him and she/her in most of the text boxes, so if it's a necessity, you could always go back a generation and play TS3!
