i highly recommend using genetics cc - stuff like skinblends/overlays, freckles/moles/birthmarks, aging details (like eyebags, smile lines etc), lashes, eyes, brows, nosemasks, blushes, scars. also tattoos! cc tattoos are mandatory imo because the tattoo selection we have is so plum. you can browse
lana's cc finds by category to find basically anything you'd want. here's a
link to some of my genetics cc (it's a wip, needs to be updated). for hair, three of my faves are
kismet-sims (i'm obsessed with her hairs like oh.my.goddd),
she speaks simlish (a few mandatory ethnic hairs, like for my simself in my profile pic) and
wildly miniature sandwich (lovely recolors and originals). kismet-sims has also put out fabulous packs with
bratsims and maybe someone else, i forget who haha.