i cant load into my household will go back to the world

@Builds_World  Since the game works with no mods or custom content present, you already know the issue.  The most recent patch broke a large number of mods and some cc, so this isn't a surprise.  You'll need to go through and test your mods and cc again, perhaps this time splitting individual folders and testing smaller numbers of files at a time so you can figure out what's breaking the game.