@OnsenDreamscapes Hello! If you're on PC or Mac and don't mind using the MCCC mod, then here are the steps I take when I miss out on an urn (these are based on the most recent public version of MCCC). NOTE: Remember that mods are not supported by EA. Also, there are a lot of default settings when you add MCCC that will change your game, mostly for NPCs; the population module will begin moving NPCs into lots, having them get married and have babies, etc. So, if you're new to MCCC, it's a good idea to test the mod in a new save or use "save as" to preserve your current game until you can test all the features.
1- Play a sim who has a relationship with the ghost sim for whom you want the urn.
2- Go to the relationship panel, click on the ghost, choose the MCCC option -> Sim Commands -> Maintain Sim -> Revive Sim
3- Invite the newly revived sim to hangout, then when they show up use the friendly interaction "Ask to Join Household" (they should maintain all relationships)
4- Once the newly revived sim is back in the household and on the lot (the sim must be on the lot; best if they're inside the house), click on that sim, choose the MCCC option -> Sim Commands -> Maintain Sim -> Kill Sim (choose type of death from the list) This may seem a little harsh so you could let the sim live and let them die again naturally. However, this will give you the urn so you can move on with your game.
