My sims are married with preferences towards women, after the update they refuse

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I’m actually losing my mind, I do play with mods, but I updated them. I batch fixed my cc so I could use it. I’ve started playing with my current household who are women. They are married and have a child. After this update, random sims won’t stop coming in my house. My sims live in a secluded area in sulani, so there’s no reason this many sims should be coming in my house. Ive never changed my sims woohoo preferences. They both prefer women. Now, every time I go to woohoo, they refuse because they “aren’t interested in woohoo with women”. I thought I was finally going to be able to play my sims game, but now I have so many different issues. I’ve just repaired my game and I don’t know what to do.&nbsp;

mikimushroom · Answer

I should add that before this I couldn’t load into certain houses with the cc I had. I’d be stuck infinitely loading, so this is my first time playing since the huge update. I’m not happy at all. I could’ve went my whole life without this update because I don’t think I’ve had this many issues before. I have around 5,000 things of cc that I checked to see if they were broken or not. I’ve updated all my mods- MCCC, RPO, Childbirth Mod, more CAS traits, basic traits (plus everything that comes &nbsp;with that mod), slice of life, LGBTQIA mod, memory panel mod, milestones expanded, teleport any sim, sim national bank, love photos camera. Are any of these mods broken that I missed?

luthienrising · Answer

@mikimushroom Not all those mods are confirmed working with this patch (and note that mods with 18+ features won't be listed here if they are).

Re. the loading - not being able to load into a particular house is often because you deleted a cooking mod without first deleting plates/food made with it or you deleted a CC item that was associated with a milestone. For the second, Lumpinou has a mod fix.

Sorry, I don't know which mod would affect your game-based preferences.

guitarmouse · Answer

the not loading the houses is a problem with dx11 from the patch. I had the problem till I was told to switch back to dx9. I did so and it fixed the house part.

I am still having problems with the woohoo though. I haven't found an answer to that

luthienrising · Answer

@guitarmouse Okay, for that house loading, then, you can use Sims 4 Studio to batch-fix CC.

For the other, I don't know of a mod that would do this when broken. But I'd suggest removing and reinstalling any mods that might be related, in case you had an installation issue. Those are common with RPO especially.

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