Sim has beard in character selection bar. No beard assigned in CAS/gameplay

I have four sims in the household. One of them has a beared in the character selection bar at the bottom and occasionally in the sim selection area at the bottom w the moods/whims. They do not have this beard in CAS or Gameplay. It began when my sim started a romantic relationship w a sim with a beard. It began to look like the two sims were merged in beard and clothing in the sim selection area. This changed based on animations like “very inspired” she had a beard but for “happy” or “inspired” she was clean shaven lol. At this time her romantic bearded partner wasn’t in the household 

he is now in the household  the issue is persisting in the character selection bar at the bottom of the screen. I removed all of my beard mods and that did not resolve the issue. There were no other Sims with facial hair in the house, so I thought maybe removing her partners  would work and it did not. She is not appearing w facial hair in CAS or gameplay still  

in the attached pics you can see it looks like the graphics for her and her partner are merged  he is a fairy sim. I will try to include pics for this. But what’s strange is even after I removed HIS facial hair, the affected sim is still showing with facial hair and the green collared shirt although distorted 

any idea what is causing this? Going to go through and sift through all the mods, figured I would need to at some point with the huge update  but wanted some guidance on if anyone has seen this before