sims 4 kicking me out

i swear i make posts all the time on here. 

today's problem is my sims 4 game kicking me out after less than a minute. i do have mods and cc and have spent the last two hours updating everything and making sure the settings and files are where they need to be. now i dont know if this is a problem but my game has only been kicking me out when attempting to travel to my sim's wedding rehearsal dinner. i have done practically everything. i have uninstalled the game and packs, i have done the factory reset thing where you remove the mods folder and the sims folder and then opened the game and regenerated new folders and all that. i have updated custom content and mods, reset the ea app since origin is obsolete now. i have done everything. i have worked har on the save file i have and was having no trouble until the rehearsal dinner debacle. my sim's are full of cc and my sim's house is full of cc. i am at a loss of what to do. the game was working fine for the past week of my playing this same household and same save file and all of a sudden its kicking me out for no good reason.