@Bluebellflora got it to stop loading forever & work at some point by disabling Origin in game but then noticed that all of the content (hairs, clothes, etc) from purchased packs where showing broken with like the red and white checkers and question marks all over which means that even though it shows that I own that content in game, for some odd reason its not recognizing it as such. Also when I exited the game to see what was happening, I uninstalled the game, to reinstall all of the packs to see if that would work but I'm stuck in offline mode even though I have a good wifi connection & Origin is allowed incoming connections, now I cannot even access Origin since there is a message saying a need to be online to access my account for the first time ;/ leaving me unable to redownload my games. This truly sucks!