Birthday Party Mini-Game in Sims 4

Hej :D Im playin sims in danish so im not sure what the actions will b exactly called... buuut :P to "toast" u will need to give two sims a drink in their hand at the same time (can also be juice) and the option "cheers/toast" or whtever its called :P will appear as a "just now" option or u will be able to find it in friendly. If you only have one sim and need to make another sim have a drink as well, u can go into a conversation with them and click ur bar(get one if u dnt already have) and u can order drinks for both you and your friend :D 

About the play a game thing, i have tried playing chess with my birthday sim and one of the guests and that worked fine for me :D 

When all this is said I too think its very hard to get gold, and still havent achieved it. But im sure with the right timing and preparing I will get it soon. 

One thing i do to prepare is, make the birthday cake, plant the candles in it and put it in the frigde. Then I just take it out when its time to blow out the candles, that way no one will eat of it and it can last till i need it.