It's ok I understand... I got it fixed the round about way... since the repair option was not there I backed up the mods, saves and tray items and deleted the folder the sims 4 and reinstalled a fresh game and loaded it to make sure it worked and it did so I moved all my saved stuff back and the game works fine now.... I think the repair option was not there cuz of the renaming of the folder to the sims 4 old.... all was fine with the repair option until then... was a long fix but its fixed and hopefully if anyone else has this issue they will find their solution in this post