I don't know the actions for my toddler, they come up blank

Have you tried the suggestions in the linked thread ?

same thing is happening with mine and im unable to repair it too as its not available to click.. it seems a few people have this problem but its so frustrating..the new toddler items are showing up as **DEBUG** with no description too

If nothing helps, reinstalling is the last resort

I have the same problem. How can it be resolved without going into game folders etc as have been told not to do anything with them. If you uninstall and reinstall do you lose saved games? 

Do yo have more than one language available ?

Backup your user files before reinstalling: http://sims4.crinrict.com/en/2014/09/backups/