hollyw26 Thanks for the dxdiag, which lists one crash of the Nvidia graphics driver and two that may be related to your high-end processor and some default overclocking settings. Let's start with the latter first. This issue is often fixed with a BIOS update, so please update yours. I believe this is your model:
https://www.dell.com/support/product-details/en-us/product/alienware-aurora-r16-desktop/drivers
You can double-check by clicking This Device and entering your service tag. If it is the right model, please install BIOS version 2.14.0, which is newer than your currently-installed 2.12. Then try again to play.
If this doesn't help, please do a clean uninstall and reinstall of the graphics driver, as described here:
https://crinrict.com/blog/2019/02/clean-re-install-of-graphics-drivers-with-display-driver-uninstaller-ddu.html
If that doesn't help either, please look for new errors in the Reliability Monitor. Hit Windows key-R and enter "perfmon /rel" without quotes, and you'll see a chart of errors and updates with a column for each day. Today is on the right.
Look for errors that happened at exactly the time of any Sims 4 crash from after you updated the BIOS. (I don't need to see the older ones.) If you find one, double-click it to see more details, then copy that info and paste it into a reply here. I'd like everything you find except for exact duplicates. If you don't see a new error, check back in an hour or so—the Reliability Monitor doesn't always update right away.