Not getting teachable moments

I have parenthood expansion and I do not believe it is working correctly. I am not getting teachable moments for my children. I am getting the base game school calls and choices but not the teachable moments with parenthood. Therefore my character traits are only changing slightly as they go through daily activities. I have tried multiple households in multiple towns with different scenarios and nothing has made a difference, it just is not happening. I have uninstalled and reinstalled the game, as a matter of fact I'm on a totally different PC since this first started. I have repaired the game and nothing is making this work. The teachable moments are one reason I bought this expansion so I am very upset that it is not working.