Relationship stuck on lovers/acquaintance

@WhantSomeEggs Hi!  Since you're not opposed to using cheats, perhaps you could try the shift+click menu options for add / remove relationship bit.  I'm not sure if that one needs the all cheats mod that crin mentioned, so if this doesn't work the first time you might want to search for that online and add it to your game. 

Turn testingcheats on, then shift+click the sim with whom your sim has (or doesn't have) the relationship.  In my game, the relationship cheat is on the second "more choices" menu.  The remove relationship bit is limited to the ones your sim has of course.  The add relationship bit list is HUGE  haha  I found two "soulmates" bits almost all the way at the bottom of that list.  Hope this helps.

Thanks I found the solution in the second link, the first link brought me back to this thread oddly.  I must have had the cheats wrong, or they were changed since the date of the threads I looked at earlier.  I had to fix it twice as I didn't clear their relationship to 0 thinking about -50 would do it, and it didn't.  I asked to be friends first to take the gf tag off in case that was messing with it too.  Then I set their relationship to zero, then brought it back to 100 and also added back 100 romance and that gave the soulmates.  All that was left was to ask them out again.  

"You can try the friendship and romance modify cheats:

modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe -50 LTR_Friendship_Main

modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe -50 Romance_Main" These were provided by simvasion in the second link  (: Thanks @crinrict 

@WhantSomeEggs I'm glad you were able to fix things!  Although, I personally think the shift+click cheat menu is better than copying / pasting / typing all those cheats. 😉

Oh! Sorry, in my excitement I forgot to reply to you. You must require the mod you spoke of because I tried the shift click first, but there were no options to change relationships except changing familial and marriage status. Though I agree, it would have been simpler to solve it that way (: Thanks for your help.