That's the problem with quest games, if you go ahead and do things before you are told to, then it messes up the things you will have to do later. It doesn't leave much room to play sandbox (like go ahead and woohoo and get pregnant) when there will be something else the hero has to do to finish the quest. Like one time I had my king go ahead and get married, but I had to do a lot of work to get a church, get him divorced, so he could marry that elf queen. It's best not to do anything like that and just work on quests in this game.