If the Sim is an actor... then they are acting. I'm not sure I see the big deal. Actors hug, kiss, and bite (if they are vampires) other actors all the time. When I was in theater we did all sorts of stuff, often with whatever person happened to be our partner that day. But, I haven't had an actor Sim either, so maybe I'm missing something here.
As for the attire, that seems to be completely random rather than EA pushing any particular way of playing. It's been an issue for awhile that Sims will wear whatever random stuff the game decides to put on them, especially when aging up or becoming vampires. Townies often walk around looking like a closet threw up on them. They do need to address that somehow.
On topic, these things nothing. I mean, come on. We used to have strippers. STRIPPERS.
