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10 years ago
Hey Guys!
Hope everyone's doing fine. It's nearly Friday, yay. This week flew by in a second...
Also, most action seems to happen here while i'm asleep :D
@CitizenErased14 I don't have many comments on my blog. The few i have are positive and nice, but they are always specific. Like "i loved that picture where", or "i really like how you wrote the part where", you know what i mean. It never feels like they just write nice stuff for the sake of writing nice stuff. I write comments in a similar manner. If i don't understand something, i ask, rather than saying "well this is crap, i don't understand it".
I think i'm lucky because so far whoever did not like my writing didn't spend time to be nasty about it.
One thing i struggle with when i'm writing my detective story is i'm never sure whether i'm giving out clues that are totally obvious, or i'm hiding way too much. So when i get comments regarding this, it's very useful. I love to see how other people understan the little signs. Helps me improve a lot.
If i got hundreds of comments that all would be like "omg, nice blog!" i would feel a bit like "oh, is it really?"
@ra3rei
>I think it's important to be able to accept gifts. Positive feedback is like a gift.<
Yes, exactly! I learned in real life as well that when someone makes a positive comment, the best thing is just to say "thank you". There's no need to be apologetic about or make excuses about it.
Hope everyone's doing fine. It's nearly Friday, yay. This week flew by in a second...
Also, most action seems to happen here while i'm asleep :D
"CitizenErased14;14346170" wrote:
Okay, now I am switching up the subject and throwing out my own question for @everyone -- Do you ever struggle with how to feel about POSITIVE feedback/praise?
@CitizenErased14 I don't have many comments on my blog. The few i have are positive and nice, but they are always specific. Like "i loved that picture where", or "i really like how you wrote the part where", you know what i mean. It never feels like they just write nice stuff for the sake of writing nice stuff. I write comments in a similar manner. If i don't understand something, i ask, rather than saying "well this is crap, i don't understand it".
I think i'm lucky because so far whoever did not like my writing didn't spend time to be nasty about it.
One thing i struggle with when i'm writing my detective story is i'm never sure whether i'm giving out clues that are totally obvious, or i'm hiding way too much. So when i get comments regarding this, it's very useful. I love to see how other people understan the little signs. Helps me improve a lot.
If i got hundreds of comments that all would be like "omg, nice blog!" i would feel a bit like "oh, is it really?"
@ra3rei
>I think it's important to be able to accept gifts. Positive feedback is like a gift.<
Yes, exactly! I learned in real life as well that when someone makes a positive comment, the best thing is just to say "thank you". There's no need to be apologetic about or make excuses about it.