I don't think you should be offended by the moderator's comments, he just tries to give good advice and help where possible.
If you have a base in a high attack level area, you may be attacked (repeatedly or not at all) depending on chance. As you already know the number of waves depends on the number of bases you have nearby, if you destroy them all, they will not be able to attack you from bases, only camps or outposts.
But I remember that the bases will regenerate after a certain time.
It is possible that other teammates of yours are chased by luck and do not receive large attacks but in view of them, you should improve your defense before entering that zone of such high level.
The game does not identify special players and attacks them relentlessly, it is not its operation.
