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VisionGoals's avatar
11 years ago

Do you feel motivated tapping when you are heartbroken?

If I were heartbroken I'd probably get wasted or lay in bed staring at the ceiling.
  • Break ups and being cheated on are very hard to deal with but eventually it gets better and you'll either meet someone else or start learning to be happy being single.

    Find something you enjoy doing, for me it was watching war documentaries and medical shows... everyone's got different advice, so just find what suits you.
  • Khodro wrote:
    LanceUppercut808 wrote:
    Khodro wrote:
    The love of my life rejected me and I don't feel like collecting my money even though I have a ton waiting in my game. Does anybody else feel demotivated when they're sad?


    Been there, done that, my friend. Several times in fact. The last time, I could have probably prevented it, but I was too proud at the time...tried a few weeks later to get her back, and she had just met some other guy. Fast forward 3 years, they got married last month. I went on a a bit of a bender. (Some might call it a major bender) But....I never stopped tapping. I can transport myself to my little Springfield that I built myself, and for just a little while, everything is alright. It's my happy place. That and my Simpsons dvd's. Those always cheer me up.
    As for non-simpsons stuff that cheers me up, music always helps. (music can also hurt, so be careful what you pick....don't play "Wish You Were Here" by Incubus 87 times in a row or anything like that, or you are probably just asking for trouble.
    Talk to people. Hang out with friends.
    Basically, do the opposite of what I normally do. HAH!


    Yes, she's with her boyfriend for a few years as well. I plan on getting shitfaced after my final and see where that takes me.


    "... as well?" she was dating you and the other guy at the same time? Its not cheating if you were not in a steady, committed relationship. Ive been in a steady relationship that became an open one b/c of distance and its still rough, but it shouldn't be a surprise. This my experience and my opinion.

    Anyway sorry about your hard times dude. Don't get wasted alone, drink with friends. Ace your studies first.