How to find GOOD friends?

graywolfii wrote:
I count myself lucky to have so many wonderful neighbors on my list! I have been tweaking this list since the Valentine's event - there are even a few names left who exchanged Valentines with me way back then. :wink:

At each new event I have removed non-active or non-visiting players in favor of forum regulars and newbies who need my constant visits :mrgreen: to help build their towns. I'm at 100 neighbors right now, with only a few who don't seem to be visiting/playing.

Been at ur Place today. ;) . Some times after an event, I need to take a break and dont get around as often as I should, well that and occasionally I get stuck working someplace that don't have interwebz.. :shock: ..

kungpao214 wrote:

mwdalton wrote:
BEING a forum regular doesn't hurt the ol' friends list, either :wink:

Truth. Lately, i've only been adding players that PM me. OR I proactively PM them first.

I've had to start doing that, too. Though one PM I had said simply "hey bro, add me". I ignored that one, since I'm not a bro, and - well, call me old fashioned, but a girl needs a bit more than that, y'know?

Arlandria606 wrote:

kungpao214 wrote:

mwdalton wrote:
BEING a forum regular doesn't hurt the ol' friends list, either :wink:

Truth. Lately, i've only been adding players that PM me. OR I proactively PM them first.

I've had to start doing that, too. Though one PM I had said simply "hey bro, add me". I ignored that one, since I'm not a bro, and - well, call me old fashioned, but a girl needs a bit more than that, y'know?

Same here. Since I have changed my sig, I have also gotten a few of those PMs just saying "add me". I also ignored them for the same reason. :)


PS: I still have room for some 30 neighbors. :wink:

baylensmom wrote:
I'm a great neighbor, especially during events. I have over 23 million ( so I don't care about getting more coins)in the bank and not a lot of time on my hands or the patience to visit 97 friends every single day or week for that matter, UNLESS we are having an event. I enjoy my time off in between and don't feel bad about it.

She is a great neighbor with a fantastic town. She visits me way more then I visit her. I'm surprised she is still my friend. My town has been in shambles for months now. I keep waiting for more land so I can completely overhaul my town.

As for my other friends. I don't really care what their towns look like or how much they visit. I've had the same friend since last Christmas. I've dropped a few friends here and their due to not playing anymore. But I have had 75 friend requests since Whacking Day started. It amazes me on how many random request you get just for posting now and then on the forum. I would hate to see how many the mods get each week.

I feel the need for a separate thread about amusing / rude / really bizarre friend request PMs. Names removed, of course. I've got at least 3 or 4 that should elicit a giggle.