Why are we forced to play people with extremely bad connections?

@Afrikanxl I've noticed when I take some people down and block a few transitions, something happens where an extreme lag will kick in. My Internet is 1.5 gbps and I'm wired in. It's crazy tbh, this and getting matched against someone presumably on their parents/neighbors wifi four rooms over trying to play knowing they have extreme lag. Also a lot of times ping will look normal then boom super lag the whole fight. I wish their was a clear remedy...