Its not making me (or anyone i believe) uncomfortable, dont worry. As long as the discussion is healthy, its fine.
For me personally, lets take some examples i had this week. I run 100 AI, but also gone done to 95 AI in some tracks.
The China straight, i have gained on the AI by exit and pretty much the entire long right hander, they just nab DRS. Myself have DRS and slipstream. WIth upgrades, i maximum drain 60% off the battery from when i go full power at the exit off the corner to the braking point at the end off the straight. i cannot overtake the car ahead as it is just to fast and the car behind me with DRS comes right up my gearbox. Engine temps are okay (in the green) and i have pitted for the undercut so my tyres are fresh while the AI tyres should be retired. Engine wear is not a problem as this is the second race off the season (third with sprint). Battery is recharged in the next 3-4 corners already so i dont need to worry about that. Setups is not from the TT leaderboard, but a custom one with low downforce, lower then the preset setups the AI use, Both wings and suspension has been set to lower drag.
Then Miami and on both straights. I tried running with a low drag suspension and 0-rear wing. I get DRS on the first straight as i can easily switchback on the AI in the long left hander on exit so they dont get it, which also negates the need for good tires. Yet with the battery used and my rear wing open, they come back at me with no DRS, overtake me and are almost half a second ahead off me into the braking point. The next corners are used to saving the battery, just so i can dump it again to follow the AI on the next straight after the snail section, even with DRS and some slipstream. All my time gained is in the corners. This is the race lap after lap. Engine wear and temps are all good.
In Imola, i running a lower drag setup then the AI preset, gain all the time in the world on corner exits, even with older tyres, especially the chicane before the DRS detection point. Gain time on exit before the pit-straight. I have full battery, engine temps and wear is good, DRS is open and i have slipstream and i gain maybe a tenth or two. Cant even get alongisde to the AI so i cant pass, unless it is a risky divebomb. Rest off the battery is used to defend until the next corners and the hairpin.
Canada is pretty much the same, but the AI has always during the last years had much higher straight line speed there. For some reason, it is really hard for the average player to run a low-drag setup here so hard to say here.
Same in Austria and Silverstone. lower drag setups, engine are fine with temps and wear. Gain alot in the corners, have better exits before its like the AI engage the Nitro from Fast & Furious. This goes on for lap after lap.
In Spa, i had some luck because the AI run a more balanced setups with to much drag and are barely calibrated to use ERS. The Kemmel Straight with DRS is still a fight, but on the back straight its okay because the AI actually lift a bit in the little left kink before the bui stop chicane. The also lift up Eau Rouge.
Monza, everybody is on low drag setups, engine are goods, i gain at the exits before each DRS zone. Cant pass, Reach speeds over 360kph and even without DRS the AI match my speed. I overtake easily in the braking point because the AI is so poor all over the cornering phase.
Baku, same story, but i gain almost a second in the castle section, with a low drag setup.
Same goes in Mexico. Low or lower drag setup then preset. Tyres, engine, temps all good. The corners and especially the S-section i gain plenty off time on the AI.
In Vegas, bit off same story. The AI has never been calibrated properly here. so you can attack a bit more, but you have to drain your battery here do to the long straight.
Qatar however. I just crank it up to 110 AI and crushes the AI, just because they are so poor in the corners. Thats also why the AI is so poor in Monaco and Singapore.
Honorable mentions is Suzuka back straight and main straight. They just fly pass, especially on the back straight. Same on the straights at Cota, Spain, Zaandvort.
This is the same thing that almost all the players on different AI is experiencing. I just saw Jarno Opmeer video on MyTeam in Monza yesterday and everybody should see his last lap overtake on Ocon. Where he reaches 353kph with DRS, some battery and slipstream. Ocon does not have DRS, yet he is pretty much just as fast. Yes the AI car Opmeer drives is poor do to his own set challenge, but when a 3x world champion also complains about it in a video, then some alarms should be raised. He easily overtook Ocon in the braking point as Ocon braked 50 meter+ before a braking point most players would use.
I have currently 135,5 hours on the game and its the same story all over season after season. I never let the battery drain to under 10% as the deployment is halfed in Hotlap and it will recharge in medium. I always make sure the engine is good, the only gain i have strategy wise is the undercut.
It cant be ERS management, engine mangement, setup etc. Something is very off with the AI straight line speed vs corner speed and it needs to be balanced out.