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Ok. We can rule out being on wireless then. Unfortunately though, there isn't anything we can do about this. Either you or your opponent are disconnecting due to a connection issue. If you disconnect in every game and you're always playing a different opponent, most likely, it's caused by an issue with your ISP or home network equipment. There are some troubleshooting steps here that may help. Otherwise, it would be good to contact your ISP to see if they are noticing anything that could be interrupting your connection.