Cross-Play Greyed Out - Xbox Series X

Player the game since launch and I’ve never been able to enable cross-play. My Xbox settings are fine as I play other cross-platform games. When I go to the Party Settings, cross-play is greyed out and has been since day 1. I’ve watched videos on how to enable cross-play and I noticed there should be a setting under the “Social” section in General Settings to also enable this but I don’t have that setting