Charmer trait and sad moodlet continuing as sims age up

If I use a cheat to age up my sims, I’m finding that if they had the ‘charmer’ trait, this continues on into the later life stages. They constantly have a sad moodlet for not enough attention / interactions even when they’ve socialised with others and the bar is full. I’ve tried using cheats to remove the moodlet and using aspiration points to get rid of it but it always comes back. It is making the sims unplayable because they are always sad.